They know who they are and why their marriage failed and are looking for pure companionship.
They probably won’t be in “awe” of you and hang on your every word.
We have been divorced for 2 years and although it saddens me that my family has been broken apart, I am happy that my ex and I have have managed to be civil enough to make it okay for the kids.
(yes I do fall into this category) Chances are good that these women have older kids who are well on their way and don’t really want your input on their children.
Be cautious men, these women are looking for you to do it all over again and that means house and children.
Sure it will start with great sex and they will make you feel “alive” and young but proceed with caution.
In addition, the very concept of what was attractive was also drilled into our young brains, and unfortunately, what was considered attractive was informed by racism, ableism, ageism, and cis-gendered heterosexuality.
Even more unfortunate, the competition increased as girls became women.