Everything about him is perfect except for one thing: He’s a widower. Is he ready to move on and start a new life with me? If the relationship works out, will he love me as much as the late wife?These and a thousand other questions go through your head. The purpose of this book isn’t to discourage you from dating a widower.By recent I mean that he had lost his wife less than six months prior. At the time, I had sworn off dating and was pretty focused on raising my kids and enjoying the occasional weekend they were with their dad.But I agreed to a *date* under the pretense that this would be dating, no relationship, no happily ever after. So the issue: When we are together, we have a great time. We will have three to four great weeks, then he'll suddenly pull back. Since we've been together, neither of us has dated anyone else and we are viewed by friends and family as a couple.The good news is that there are many widowers out there who are ready to make room in their heart for another person.
Learn how to pursue the relationship in a healthy and respectful manner.But using your best judgment and keeping a sensitive heart will help you foster a long and lasting relationship when the right one comes along, widower or not.Hey Meredith, More than a year ago I began dating a recent widower.Remember that when dating a widowed man, or any new relationship, taking it slow and easy will help you succeed.It might not be the right time, or you might not have the right man.